How Datababy Works
A comprehensive guide to understanding our methodology, process, and what makes Datababy different from traditional personality assessments.
The Three-Step Process
Understand yourself and others—then practice showing up the way you want.
Measure
Invite people who know you to answer a quick 2-minute survey. You'll also answer questions about yourself. Invite others to create their own profile. Just simple, positive questions—no harsh ratings or judgments.
Responders say the survey is fun to fill out. There are no wrong answers—just observations.
We need at least 8 responses to spot real patterns (not just one person's opinion). This is why Datababy reveals things you genuinely didn't know—about yourself and others—based on what multiple people consistently observe.
Discover
See patterns visualized—yours and others'. Polarity science reveals natural strengths and blind spots. Understand how you and the people around you show up across different contexts and relationships.
Train
Practice with AI simulations of yourself and others. Explore conversations. Learn about growth opportunities. Build emotional intelligence strategies in a safe space before the real stakes.
Backed by Polarity Management, a proven psychological framework for behavioral growth.
Polarity science reveals which behaviors you express more vs. less—helping you find balance rather than being locked into a fixed personality type.
What You Actually Get
Your Datababy Profile is a living visualization of how you show up across different contexts and relationships. It's not a fixed personality type—it's a dynamic map of your behavioral patterns.
See a Sample Profile
Startup Founder, Technology
Visionary, bold, and experimental. Drives rapid innovation with big-picture thinking and assertive execution.
How to Read This Chart
Each bar shows how you're perceived through the eyes of others. The percentages reveal your default patterns—for example, 100% Strategic means you consistently think big-picture. Different color segments represent how you show up in different contexts (e.g., family, personal, and professional relationships).
Interpretation
Biggest Strengths: Exceptional big-picture visionary who sees opportunities others miss. Extremely bold and experimental, willing to break conventions and take calculated risks.
Growth Opportunities: Detail-oriented execution partner to ensure nothing falls through the cracks. Someone to provide strategic caution and help assess risks before moving too fast.
How We Get This Level of Accuracy
Real observations from people who see you in action. It might seem like a lot upfront, but the insights are worth it.
In the last six months, which behavior is expressed more?
Anna
Patient
Remains steady and composed under pressure
Assertive
Takes decisive action quickly and seizes opportunities
Why This Feedback Doesn't Feel Harsh
Every question is structured around two positive traits. There's no “good” or “bad” answer—just which behavior shows up more often.
The insights come from patterns across multiple people, not one person's judgment. You're not getting criticized—you're getting a mirror that shows you how you're consistently showing up, even in ways you didn't realize.
What to Expect
Create Account
1 minute
Invite People
5 minutes
They Respond
24-48 hours
See Results + AI
Unlock your insights
95% of people get at least 8 responses within 48 hours. Most say their friends and colleagues were happy to help—especially because the survey is genuinely quick and kind of fun.
Emotional Intelligence Training in the Age of AI
Understanding patterns is just the beginning. Our AI-powered simulations let you practice conversations with yourself and others—so you can build emotional intelligence in a safe space before the real stakes.
Reconnect With Yourself
We take your assessment results and generate a life-like simulation so you can explore the depths of your mind.
- Understand what motivates and drives you
- Work through limiting beliefs
- Increase self-love and self-acceptance
- Gain clarity on your patterns and behaviors
“But What If I Don't Like What I Find Out?”
We get it. The idea of honest feedback can feel vulnerable. But here's the truth: growth is always a little uncomfortable—and it's never as bad as you think it will be. Plus, everybody's in it together. You're not the only one learning and growing.
It's Designed to Be Kind
Every question compares two positive traits. You're not being judged—you're being understood. The feedback reveals patterns, not flaws.
You'll Discover Strengths
Most people are surprised by how many positive patterns show up. You'll see things you're doing well that you didn't even realize.
Knowledge Is Power
The discomfort of not knowing is worse than the clarity of understanding. Once you know, you can do something about it.
The people who get the most from Datababy aren't the ones who are already perfect—they're the ones who are curious, willing to learn, and committed to showing up better for the people around them.
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See what individuals, teams, and coaches from Google, LinkedIn, and more are saying about their Datababy experience.
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